Author: Dmays

Ummm, Who am I? My name is Nikki I'm a loving, caring, outgoing mom. I have two wonderful children that are a blessing. I love to cook, spend time with family, and bake. I'm a natural. My favorite color is orange, it's so vibrant and shouts out like me. I'm keto and I have tried vegan it was a well journey.  I can kick the meats but I love my cheeses. So come join me in this journey.

These Are My Pet Peeves ☺️🥰🧡(NO OFFENSE TO ANYONE)

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Name your top three pet peeves.

When it comes to my pet peeves they can really hurt someone’s feeling. The reason why is I will let you know what they are so you can fix them. I know I shouldn’t be so upfront because everyone goes through the steps of making the right health choices. 😁

Number uno: When it comes to hygiene it is a must to get it down pack because I can only take so much. PLEASE wash your face, brush your teeth don’t forget to floss, brush your tongue and PLEASE mouthwash and take a shower if you stink before  approaching me. I know I have to work on myself too but when it comes to being healthy you have to care about yourself before you can care about someone else. 😱

Number duos: If you ask me how to help you eat in a healthier way so that you can start losing weight. Then you decide that what I do don’t work for you or you can’t live with not eating what you want and how much you eat. Then don’t ask me for pointers because I can only can help so much. ☠️

Number tres: If I’m not talking to you then keep walking because I am spending time with my dog and we are walking. Stop trying to walk up to me, because he doesn’t like extra walkers we are a team. If we wanted to talk we would’ve as we hit the corner.  We will  recruit or speak to people if we want to.🤭

Inner Me

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What’s something most people don’t know about you?

When it comes to something most people don’t know, I love putting my heart into everything I do. I have spent my life helping people even in my younger days. I just love helping people and even making friends with the people no one would give me a chance to. When it comes to my life I have been pushed down a deep hole but as I see it I am blessed to be still breathing and living so I can’t give up. One day it will be my time to shine I just gotta keep pushing and all the people who say I won’t make it will see the heart on my chest. Then wonder how I made it. I love hard and deep, but the love I give out is and will always be genuine because I was raised to love everyone equally.  Treat everyone equally no matter where their from, what you’ve been through, where you’re at, or where you’re going.  Because one day someone else will be in a situation like mine and they will want help, but they might not know how to get out and they might need help. So to EVERYONE, love hard and genuine.  Treat ALL equally no matter WHAT!! Somebody might judge you for being your true genuine self. Just remember you got where you are for being your true self inside and out.

Respect Equally
Love Equally
Lova All
We Are One

NOT ME!!!!!!!

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This is not me…Its frightening because I dont know who this is, but it’s not me. I sit here everyday thinking to myself asking “Who is this?, its definitely not me. My mind has thoughts of doing things that dont make sense. Things that I couldn’t imagine. I can’t see myself harming my own fleshing blood in my body, but as soon as you make this person that’s not me mad, they want to snap.

It’s crazy this feeling but I don’t know how to stop it. It wants to crack bones and make it’s self feel good again. I know my spirit is broken, because this is just not me. When looking in a mirror I can see who you are and from day one I decided to stand for what I know. You are not me and I will find myself again even if it takes another year. My true self is getting near.

Love Steps

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What is it? What do it mean? Is it real? or Is it a dream? Some say it with three words, but do they mean it. Is love just a game that people play with? The word love can get you hurt if not used in the right way. When it comes to love it’s just damaging.

Love is a part that adds onto trust, honesty and communication. How will you beable to love someone you can’t trust? How can you trust someone you cant be honest with? How can you be honest enough to communicate a conversation? It will never seem real if you don’t build it. Build the trust.

Trust is a must. You must build trust or the relationship wont grow. Growing is what you have to do or you will be stuck. Like the tree and flowers they trust in the soil to bring nutrients to help them grow. They trust in the sky to bring rain to keep them strong. So trusting in a person can be hard at first but it will come eventually. Just stay honest.

Honest is part of yourself being real. Honesty is hard for a broken heart. A heart that has been broken one trillion time. Being honest sucks but it help to build growth of trust and love. Honesty also helps with the inner you. You can be honest with yourself be true to you. That’s a great start of communication.

Communication one thing people dislike the most. Communication is like fixing a broken toe. If communication doesn’t happen your mate will go ghost and find communication so where else. Finding communication is not hard there are always people that love to talk. When communicating you have to watch out for sensitive areas. Guys have alot of them. You have to be gentle or they will close. So don’t get lost just take your time its may be years before you become a pro.

This Man

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This man is kind sweet and thoughtful. This man don’t know what he does to me. This man is my rock. This man is my Ocean. This man may be a wall but if I was a tornado he was crumble and build himself back up. This man has life speeded across the world but still comes home to be with us. This man is my life he know my like, needs, and never worry bout wants because he is all I want in my life.

This man loves to work but knows how to play when it’s time. He stands strong and can withstand anything that comes across is start line. He won’t let you break him because he is strong. So don’t think just because you can stand alone your strong its take time to build a strong relationship, life, heart, and mind.

You have to focus on what is important in life and do you want to build with it or lose it, because when it’s gone it’s gone. Something that is not meant for you with stay, but if it’s yours it will be there when your life is ready for it, because there will be no I’m in, but wait I need a break I’m out.

Get life together with your family because with everything that’s going on now. They are all you need and all you will have when times get to tough for you. Break backs but fix them with a smile and a come back. Family first!

Get Up

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Hello, its happy Friday and its counting down until the weekend officially starts, but there a couple of things we still have to do.

Make sure all the kids are ready to enjoy their last day of freedoms because school will be back again in a couple of weeks.

Dont say yes to everything they want because it will make it more difficult to say no again when the pandemic comes back around. You will be barricaded inside climbing the wall.

Always say yes you can help me cook it will give them a feel of responsibility which is what they need.

Let them stay outside all day because there will be more indoor time they will crave for when the sun heats them up and make them run.

Make easy quick breakfast and lunch ideas when you have to run, because your dont want hungry alligators in your back seat that turn into bears when you get half way to your destination.

Ask them to help you make dinner because they have to eat it too. Making sure they eat what they make is way more better then you cooking and they dont eat and you have to cook again.

Good luck with your days as they come to a countdown for school. Your edges will grow back in because you will get a break unless your doing virtual I feel bad if your child has to be difficult just because they can.

Signing out for real Good Luck All

Family day at the park..

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Now I am not normal when it comes to going to the park and the sun beats me there. I find trees to hid under and run everytime the sun change directions. So on this day my babay wanted to show he can do the monkey bars. So as he went across he shouted “Mom take me a picture” I thought it was so cute that he can hold on and smile for 4 shot then shout “Do you have it yet?” To see his face with a smile while holding on brought joy to a really end of a great day at the park.

When it comes to this quarantine thing and holding them inside I started seeing that being locked up can hurt a childs confidence. It makes them more angry and upset when they can go places, so seeing his on this day has made me make more day for a park trip or two.

Love

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When it comes to love it’s a true struggle. Love comes in many different forms. Love can be the flower sitting on your counter for days of the bird that sits at your window singling g every morning. Love can be the raindrops that fall from a warm crisp summer day or the snow that cakes of your window pain. When it comes to love you can predict it so dont try to. Let love find you when love wants to.