Love Steps

What is it? What do it mean? Is it real? or Is it a dream? Some say it with three words, but do they mean it. Is love just a game that people play with? The word love can get you hurt if not used in the right way. When it comes to love it’s just damaging.

Love is a part that adds onto trust, honesty and communication. How will you beable to love someone you can’t trust? How can you trust someone you cant be honest with? How can you be honest enough to communicate a conversation? It will never seem real if you don’t build it. Build the trust.

Trust is a must. You must build trust or the relationship wont grow. Growing is what you have to do or you will be stuck. Like the tree and flowers they trust in the soil to bring nutrients to help them grow. They trust in the sky to bring rain to keep them strong. So trusting in a person can be hard at first but it will come eventually. Just stay honest.

Honest is part of yourself being real. Honesty is hard for a broken heart. A heart that has been broken one trillion time. Being honest sucks but it help to build growth of trust and love. Honesty also helps with the inner you. You can be honest with yourself be true to you. That’s a great start of communication.

Communication one thing people dislike the most. Communication is like fixing a broken toe. If communication doesn’t happen your mate will go ghost and find communication so where else. Finding communication is not hard there are always people that love to talk. When communicating you have to watch out for sensitive areas. Guys have alot of them. You have to be gentle or they will close. So don’t get lost just take your time its may be years before you become a pro.

This Man

This man is kind sweet and thoughtful. This man don’t know what he does to me. This man is my rock. This man is my Ocean. This man may be a wall but if I was a tornado he was crumble and build himself back up. This man has life speeded across the world but still comes home to be with us. This man is my life he know my like, needs, and never worry bout wants because he is all I want in my life.

This man loves to work but knows how to play when it’s time. He stands strong and can withstand anything that comes across is start line. He won’t let you break him because he is strong. So don’t think just because you can stand alone your strong its take time to build a strong relationship, life, heart, and mind.

You have to focus on what is important in life and do you want to build with it or lose it, because when it’s gone it’s gone. Something that is not meant for you with stay, but if it’s yours it will be there when your life is ready for it, because there will be no I’m in, but wait I need a break I’m out.

Get life together with your family because with everything that’s going on now. They are all you need and all you will have when times get to tough for you. Break backs but fix them with a smile and a come back. Family first!

Get Up

Hello, its happy Friday and its counting down until the weekend officially starts, but there a couple of things we still have to do.

Make sure all the kids are ready to enjoy their last day of freedoms because school will be back again in a couple of weeks.

Dont say yes to everything they want because it will make it more difficult to say no again when the pandemic comes back around. You will be barricaded inside climbing the wall.

Always say yes you can help me cook it will give them a feel of responsibility which is what they need.

Let them stay outside all day because there will be more indoor time they will crave for when the sun heats them up and make them run.

Make easy quick breakfast and lunch ideas when you have to run, because your dont want hungry alligators in your back seat that turn into bears when you get half way to your destination.

Ask them to help you make dinner because they have to eat it too. Making sure they eat what they make is way more better then you cooking and they dont eat and you have to cook again.

Good luck with your days as they come to a countdown for school. Your edges will grow back in because you will get a break unless your doing virtual I feel bad if your child has to be difficult just because they can.

Signing out for real Good Luck All

Family day at the park..

Now I am not normal when it comes to going to the park and the sun beats me there. I find trees to hid under and run everytime the sun change directions. So on this day my babay wanted to show he can do the monkey bars. So as he went across he shouted “Mom take me a picture” I thought it was so cute that he can hold on and smile for 4 shot then shout “Do you have it yet?” To see his face with a smile while holding on brought joy to a really end of a great day at the park.

When it comes to this quarantine thing and holding them inside I started seeing that being locked up can hurt a childs confidence. It makes them more angry and upset when they can go places, so seeing his on this day has made me make more day for a park trip or two.